Take it slow! There should be no rush when it comes to kissing. If you take it slowly, you will look as though you know what you are doing. Besides, it's supposed to be fun and sensual. Considering this, why would you want to rush it?
It may sound silly, but practicing on the back of your hand or with a pillow is actually going to help you to have better french kissing techniques. Imagine if you tried to kiss someone for the first time following my instructions step-by-step. It wouldn't be like a natural kiss, because you'll be so tense from concentrating on what to do that you won't let it flow. If you practice, the movements will start to come naturally to you, and this will also make you a lot less nervous.
Do change your technique sometimes for a bit of variety, so it surprises your partner. You don't want kissing to become a routine. If kissing is exciting for your partner, they will want to kiss you more often to see what kind of surprise you have in store for them. After their initial surprise, let them get used to the kiss and enjoy it. If you change too quickly, it might cut off the other kiss just as they were getting into it. It may also appear sloppy to them if you are changing technique every couple of minutes like you aren't quite sure how to do it. Changing your french kissing technique also shows your kissing partner that you are putting some thought into it, showing that you really enjoy kissing them.
Trust me, you will become better at kissing with bit of practice! The first time you got on a bike, it is likely you weren't all that good. But with a little perseverance, you improved. It's the same with kissing. You will start to get a natural feel for other people's lips, and it won't be long till you can go with the flow.
A french kiss is also about the body. If you are standing away from a person and the only thing that is touching is your lips, then this isn't a very personal kiss. You have to feel it with your whole body. Hold them or touch them so they feel closer to you. Touch their face, rub their back, and hold their hand, anything that can make the kiss feel more intimate.
In between kisses, say little sweet things to let the other person know you are into them. This makes them happy and gives them something to think about while they are kissing you. It will make them feel special because it shows you are still thinking about them when you are kissing them. It will break the silence a little as well.
Having movement in the kiss is another important french kissing technique. Don't leave the kissing to the lips only. This gets a little boring if there is no variety, so don't be scared to spice it up a little. Move from the mouth and plant little butterfly kisses on their face and move down to the neck and kiss there for a little bit. The neck is a very sensitive area so can give off quite a tingly sensation.
Think less, relax more, and go with the flow. If you aren't relaxed, your entire body and kiss will be tense. It will be like your kiss is practiced and routine rather than natural. Relax your mind and enjoy the kiss, then your body will be able to act naturally.
With practice, your french kissing techniques will improve and you will feel comfortable and relaxed when the time is right to put your new techniques into action.Source
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